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<a href="https://blog.juliobiason.me"><h1>Julio Biason .Me 4.3</h1></a>
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<p class="lead">Old school dev living in a 2.0 dev world</p>
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<h1 class="post-title">Things I Learnt The Hard Way - Beware of Toxic People</h1>
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2019-07-23
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<a href="https://blog.juliobiason.me/tags/books/">#books</a>
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<a href="https://blog.juliobiason.me/tags/things-i-learnt/">#things i learnt</a>
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<a href="https://blog.juliobiason.me/tags/personal/">#personal</a>
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<a href="https://blog.juliobiason.me/tags/toxic-people/">#toxic people</a>
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<p>You'll find people that, even if they don't small talk you, they will bad
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mouth everything else -- even some other people -- openly.</p>
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<p>Toxic people love drama. They love to put people down. They love to point
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mistakes made by others -- but never by themselves. Some of them actually do
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that to make themselves look better in the eyes of the upper management.</p>
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<p>Not totally toxic, but I did work with people who would never answer an email
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unless the manager was in the discussion. Another person would always claims
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his team did everything they could, even putting himself at the disposal of
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the manager to solve any issues, and that the problem was not related to their
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work -- which we proved three times it was.</p>
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<p>You need to stay away from those people. They will harm in ways you can figure
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out immediately. Their attitude towards other (and maybe even yourself) will
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drive you so down you'll waste more time wondering what you did wrong than
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doing your job.</p>
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<p>One thing to take a lot of care: Even if it is not your intention, you may not
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realize that you may be seen as toxic 'cause <a href="/books/things-i-learnt/learn-about-yourself">you don't understand yourself
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yet</a> and the way <a href="/books/things-i-learnt/watch-reactions">people react to
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you</a>.</p>
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<< <a href="/books/things-i-learnt/hero-syndrome">Don't Confuse Hero Project With Hero Syndrome</a>
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<a href="/books/things-i-learnt/microaggressions">Beware of Microaggressions</a> >>
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