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<a href="https://blog.juliobiason.me"><h1>Julio Biason .Me 4.3</h1></a>
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<p class="lead">Old school dev living in a 2.0 dev world</p>
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<h1 class="post-title">Things I Learnt The Hard Way - Pay Attention On How People React To You</h1>
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2019-07-19
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<a href="https://blog.juliobiason.me/tags/books/">#books</a>
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<a href="https://blog.juliobiason.me/tags/things-i-learnt/">#things i learnt</a>
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<a href="https://blog.juliobiason.me/tags/personal/">#personal</a>
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<p>One way you can learn about yourself is to pay attention on how people react
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to your actions.</p>
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<p>I have a "angry man resting face", which means that, even when I'm in a null
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mood, it looks like I'm angry.</p>
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<p>I already had one meeting and which I started to ask something and noticed
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that the other person move a bit back. That's when I realized that didn't
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sound exactly how I meant. I had to add "I'm not saying what you're proposing
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is wrong, I'm just confused."</p>
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<p>Also, I got a manager once come up with "I thought you were <em>the</em> serious
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person... till you suddenly started singing in the middle of a meeting"<sup class="footnote-reference"><a href="#1">1</a></sup>.</p>
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<p>You need to keep an eye on this. How is people reacting to your reactions? Are
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they opening themselves to you or are they closing?</p>
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<div class="footnote-definition" id="1"><sup class="footnote-definition-label">1</sup>
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<p>I have this "serious" problem that, depending on the word someone says,
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I recall some lyrics and suddenly start singing it.</p>
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<< <a href="/books/things-i-learnt/learn-about-yourself">You'll Learn About Yourself The Hard Way</a>
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<a href="/books/things-i-learnt/hero-syndrome">Don't Confuse Hero Project With Hero Syndrome</a> >>
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