New chapter: Learning about yourself

content/books/things-i-learnt/_index.md

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 	* [Learn To Say No](say-no)
 	* [Take Responsibility For The Use Of Your Code](responsible-code)
 	* [Don't Tell It's Done When It's Not](not-done)
+	* [You'll Learn About Yourself The Hard Way](learn-about-yourself)

content/books/things-i-learnt/learn-about-yourself/index.md

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+title = "Things I Learnt The Hard Way - You'll Learn About Yourself The Hard Way"
+date = 2019-07-19
+
+[taxonomies]
+tags = ["en-au", "books", "things i learnt", "personal", "burn out"]
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+
+We get frustrated with code that doesn't compile. We get angry with customers
+asking things back and forth. We get upset when upper management can't make up
+its mind. And we lash out on others when that happens.
+
+<!-- more -->
+
+Unfortunately, that's the way you'll learn about yourself. You'll learn to
+figure out when you get frustrated. You'll learn how you can keep getting
+attacked by others -- even micro-aggressions -- but, without realizing, at
+some point you'll suddenly burst into an counter-attack that may seem out of
+proportion.
+
+The worst part of it all? Very few people will tell you what you're doing
+before it's too late -- you'll get in trouble way before you could actually
+understand what you were doing.
+
+{{ chapters(prev_chapter_link="/books/things-i-learnt/not-done", prev_chapter_title="Don't Tell It's Done When It's Not") }}

content/books/things-i-learnt/not-done/index.md

@@ -30,4 +30,4 @@ On the other hand, if you say "Almost, but there is this thing that bothers me
 and I think it may give us a headache in the future", they will understand. So
 be clear and transparent about your work.
 
-{{ chapters(prev_chapter_link="/books/things-i-learnt/responsible-code", prev_chapter_title="Take Responsibility For The Use Of Your Code") }}
+{{ chapters(prev_chapter_link="/books/things-i-learnt/responsible-code", prev_chapter_title="Take Responsibility For The Use Of Your Code", next_chapter_link="/books/things-i-learnt/learn-about-yourself", next_chapter_title="You'll Learn About Yourself The Hard Way") }}