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<a href="https://blog.juliobiason.me"><h1>Julio Biason .Me 4.3</h1></a>
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<p class="lead">Old school dev living in a 2.0 dev world</p>
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<h1 class="post-title">Things I Learnt The Hard Way - You'll Learn About Yourself The Hard Way</h1>
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2019-07-19
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<a href="https://blog.juliobiason.me/tags/books/">#books</a>
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<a href="https://blog.juliobiason.me/tags/things-i-learnt/">#things i learnt</a>
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<a href="https://blog.juliobiason.me/tags/personal/">#personal</a>
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<a href="https://blog.juliobiason.me/tags/burn-out/">#burn out</a>
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<p>We get frustrated with code that doesn't compile. We get angry with customers
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asking things back and forth. We get upset when upper management can't make up
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its mind. And we lash out on others when that happens.</p>
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<p>Unfortunately, that's the way you'll learn about yourself. You'll learn to
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figure out when you get frustrated. You'll learn how you can keep getting
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attacked by others -- even micro-aggressions -- but, without realizing, at
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some point you'll suddenly burst into an counter-attack that may seem out of
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proportion.</p>
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<p>The worst part of it all? Very few people will tell you what you're doing
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before it's too late -- you'll get in trouble way before you could actually
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understand what you were doing.</p>
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<p>But, again, you'll get in trouble.</p>
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<p>And you <em>must</em> learn about these events. Take the feedback as true, even if
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you don't agree with it. I had my falls, and I always took it as something I
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need to improve, even if later I said to my psychologist that I thought it was
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unfair and biased -- mostly 'cause I'm the quiet guy that always took the
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blows and never complained about, and people taking the flak from me were more
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vocal and friendlier to the higher-ups. But, again, I took it as true, and did
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my best to work on those problems.</p>
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<< <a href="/books/things-i-learnt/people-care">You'll Learn About Yourself The Hard Way</a>
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<a href="/books/things-i-learnt/watch-reactions">Pay Attention On How People React To You</a> >>
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