New chapter: toxic/aggressive people are not fixable

content/books/things-i-learnt/_index.md

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 	* [Pay Attention On How People React To You](watch-reactions)
 	* [Beware of Toxic People](toxic-people)
 	* [Beware of Microaggressions](microaggressions)
+	* [Toxic/Aggressive People Are Not Fixable -- Unless It's You](fixable)

content/books/things-i-learnt/fixable/index.md

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+title = "Things I Learnt The Hard Way - Toxic/Aggressive People Are Not Fixable"
+date = 2019-07-23
+
+[taxonomies]
+tags = ["en-au", "books", "things i learnt", "personal", "microaggressions", "toxic people"]
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+
+You may think "But I could go to those people and say 'Why are you being
+toxic?' or 'Why are you attacking me?' or even just tell them it's not nice to
+say such things. It would help."
+
+I don't believe that's the case.
+
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+
+In the case of toxic people, they just want to see the place burn so they can
+be the hero that saves the day. Microaggressors just want to make your feel
+down 'cause so they could feel superior to you.
+
+And I don't think they can be easily fixable. That's their modus operandi and
+they will keep doing it so 'cause that's the only way they can see to
+"improve" themselves -- even if there is no real improvement, they are just
+letting everything down so they seem better than the others.
+
+On the other hand, if you keep [paying attention to the way people react to
+you](/books/things-i-learnt/watch-reactions), you may notice that you may be
+doing this to others. And now the ball is in your park: Do you want to be a
+better person or not?
+
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content/books/things-i-learnt/microaggressions/index.md

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 [^3]: And I do wish you have a HR department that understand microaggressions.
 
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